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			<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 04:19:20 -0600</pubDate>
	
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		<title><![CDATA[on this website how do I search for more people to find who could be a cool person to talk to cause I only am able to see about 10 people right now.]]></title>
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		<title><![CDATA[anyone here from fredericksburg va area?? 18 and older? please hit me up thanks]]></title>
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		<title><![CDATA[Wow--illiteracy runs rampant here! No one should be surprised by the sites overall lack-there-of genuinely useful answers...]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[If its all but impossible to comprehend the actual question because of excessive grammatical spellingverbiage etc. errors whats the point of taking the time to post anything constructive?!The mere two threads currently posted in this category are in fact stellar examples of this problem. First of all neither one contains anything at all relevant to the topic site feedback.  You want honest opinions about the efficacy of TCBHs Advice feature? Add a spellingverbiage-check tool that would recognize ubiquitous chat-speak acronyms but also correct obvious errors.  A limited amount of available character space should not be yet another excuse for almost everyones atrocious writing.]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[Wow--illiteracy runs rampant here! No one should be surprised by the sites overall lack-there-of genuinely useful answers...]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[If its all but impossible to comprehend the actual question because of excessive grammatical spellingverbiage etc. errors whats the point of taking the time to post anything constructive?!The mere two threads that are currently posted in this category are in fact stellar examples of this problem. First of all neither one contains anything at all relevant to the topic site feedback.  You want honest opinions about the efficacy of TCBHs Advice feature? Add a spellingverbiage-check tool that would recognize ubiquitous chat-speak acronyms but also correct obvious errors.  A limited amount of available character space should not be yet another excuse for almost everyones atrocious writing.]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[I am in a friends with benifits relationship with this guy. I think I am falling for him. How do I know if hes falling for me?]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[Yes we are in a friend with benifits type relationship. We have been in that type of relationsip for almost 3 or 4 months now. Its not just all about sex with us though. We do other stuff to. Like we hang out and watch movies listen to music play video games. He doesnt want a girlfriend right now though and he has made that very clear. The problem is I think I am falling for him and falling hard. I cant tell him how I feel because I dont want to scare him away. Since he made it clear he doesnt want a girlfriend at this point and time. I try to see if there are any sings that he might be feeling the same way. I cant tell though. He tells me that he does care about me though. He told me one day that he is a very affectionate guy. He said I probably wouldnt know that though because he is not very affectionate with me. He said the reason for that is because he doesnt want me to fall for him and get hurt. He has kissed me a few times but hardly ever. Well I was at this house the other day and he did something that was so unlike him. It really shocked me. And I just feel like I really need to know what it means. OR what he ment by it. I was at his house sitting on his couch. He asked me if I thought it looked like he had any circles under his eyes. I said no. Then he got a little closer and said are you sure. I said no again. Then he got closer to the point where we were face to face. Like his face was almost  touching mine and he asked me again are you really sure. So I said yes again. So after I said yes he then leaned all way up to my lips and gave me a kiss. It blew my mind. It was so amazing. It tore me up inside. In a good way. It was just crazy because it was so unlike him to do something like that with me. The thing about the kiss is it wasnt like an I want to have sex right now kiss. OR It wasnt like an Im really turned on kiss. It was more like a romantic loving type of kiss. It wasnt a tounge down my throat making out type of kiss. I cant get that kiss out of my head. It made my knees weak. Who knows maybe I am reading to much in to this kiss... Its just that from  his personality and what I know from experience with him. He is a very stright foward type of guy. He is a tell you how it is type of guy and not hold back. So it just makes me think that I am probably reading to much in to this because if he was falling for me to then wouldnt he be able to tell me? Since he is a stright foward type of guy. Ok I know this was really long and probably annoying... I am sorry for that but I figured the more you knew the better. The more you know abotu the situation I am in the more you should be able to help me. Thanks.]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[well do u like think 13 year olds should date??]]></title>
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		<title><![CDATA[do u think this is wrong when ur girl shes 12  is sending pics to this booy?she nos i look at her txtswhat do i do here SHES OUT OF CONTROLL]]></title>
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		<title><![CDATA[Are one night stands always bad? Arent one night stands ok every now and then?]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[One night stands are an explosion of passion short hot explosive and leaving a lasting memory that often trumps the actual experience. So why do my girlfriends and mom tell me they are horrible to have or participate in ]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[how to get spouse to come  clean with past cheating]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[tearing me up inside for years.cant go on much longer.just want truth to move on]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[Y does it seam like that arizona women play games and lie and like drama]]></title>
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		<title><![CDATA[wat do i do? i love him but i can not be with him......]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[me and this guy dated last year and his parents broke us up. his dad dont like me because i made some bad choices in my past b4 me and him ever knew eachother. me and him are both single. i still love him and miss him every day. he was the only guy that never changed his mind about wanting to be with me. he hasnt seen me in a while so he cant say he still loves me when he dont know for sure. he wants to meet me to just hang out as friends and see were that takes us. i do too but its hard when my family needs me at home all the time and his dad hates me. he is a good guy. he can sing. he has a good heart. he thinks about everyone else b4 himself. i love him so much but i dont know how to tell him that i want to give this relationship a try because i cant see him rite now and it hurts so much that i cry when no one else is around. he is my mr perfect and it hurts that i cant have him and idk wat to do. and no advise saying to get over him because i have tryd that. it dont work! my life is hell without him. i cant move on because there is never a spark with anyone else. he is my world! please help me!!!!!]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[Should I let a pickup line work?]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[Ok so this guy i kinda like used the cheesies pick up line ever...If I could go anywhere in the world it would be into your arms...Should I let it work and go out with him or should I ignore it and wait for him to really ask me out?]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[Why do people lie and say they love you when they dont mean it?]]></title>
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		<title><![CDATA[how do i tell my boyfriend that i want more affection from him?]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[i have been dating this guy for two weeks and two days and she shows a little affection. we already said i love yous and a little kisss. i mean NO tounge. he is afraid to fk me because he has never fkd anyone in his whole life. its driving me crazy i even tryed to dare him in truth or dare. it dont work at all!!! its like having no bf at all... i mean a guy that wont just make out with you after two weeks... its hard to handle because he said it would be imbarissing.... i am him gf we r gonna have imbarising moments. i mean we connect cause when i look into his eyes i just never want to look away because it dont even space me that other people are there.... but i wonder if he thinks im too ugly to fk or wat? he loves me and i love him but i dont know how to handle this......wat do i do? i mean its not like i said sex cause i can wait untill he is ready for that but no guy i have ever dated has done this. i havnt dated alot but i have had my share of guys.]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[what do i do?]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[i met this guy online and i feel like i am in love with him but he lives so far away and i want to see him but i need to take care of my family. i dont want to loose him. he means so much to me. he understands me and we can talk about anything and he does not judge me like alot of people i know but the problem is i still act like a little kid sometimes. he dont like that about me. he is honest but sometimes it hurts. he says it very nicely but it dont hurt any less. i love acting like akid because its like peater pan and windy. except he is like the nanny that always trys to get wendy to grow up. i babysit little kids so acting like a little kids lets me eneract with the children. i am still responsible but he just dont understand that i love who i am but i also love him and idk wat to do]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[how do i get closure?]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[me and my ex were together for a long time. i gave up alot for him. i fought with my family because they thought he was worthless. but in the end i thought i could have been pregnant with his child and he said it wasnt him and that we were over. come to find out i wasnt pregnant and think god i wasnt. if i do have a baby i would want the daddy there. but i cant stop thinking about him. i gave him everything i posibly could. including my virgenity it wasnt rite what he did and yet i still love him. we had no closure in the end and its tearing me apart. and every time i call him to get closure we end up fighting.]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[How do i cope it has been 3 years and a day since ive seen the guy I was supposed to marry he was bad but i loved him.]]></title>
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		<title><![CDATA[do teen girls like having a boyfriend that crossdresses]]></title>
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		<title><![CDATA[y do guys like to brake hearts?]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[its like they enjoy it or something! too many guys have broken my heart! i am scared to let another one in but my friend refurd me to this site! idk wat to do!]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[any girls from pittsburgh]]></title>
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		<title><![CDATA[like women age 50and over]]></title>
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		<title><![CDATA[How long should the average first date last hours?]]></title>
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		<title><![CDATA[how can I get this girl to notice me]]></title>
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		<title><![CDATA[Any guys from minnesota?]]></title>
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		<title><![CDATA[what is the perfect date?]]></title>
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		<title><![CDATA[any women liking any sport for companing me to events or concerts and many more stuff are welcome to let be know.]]></title>
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		<title><![CDATA[first timer looking in on this area in dating]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[looking for company just to start off if that okay liking sporting event to come soon.]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[I need to date a girl what should I do?]]></title>
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		<title><![CDATA[What will I do for him to accept my past and come back to me?]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[I will share with you my problem hoping you will understand and treat this letter of mine seriously.  By the way just call me Juliet.  I know my problem is simple and nonsense for others but for me it?s really painful. I sometimes want to end this by ending my life.  I have a boyfriend for almost two years now just call him Romeo.  I love him so much more than I love myself.  We work in the same institution and of the same age.  Before he became my boyfriend I had a boyfriend. I?ve had problems with him and Romeo is there to help me out.  After I broke up with my ex-boyfriend Romeo and I became close and eventually he became my boyfriend.  My problem is that he can?t accept my past my ?dark past? as he says?  I had sex with my ex-boyfriend many times.  Romeo already knew about this before he courted me but not the whole of it.  He asked me to have sex with him because it will help me forget my past mistakes.  As our relationship continued he discovered how darker my past was and can?t accept it.  When he remembers it though of it or saw something related to it he got angry he questions and insults me.  It is really painful I can?t do anything but cry.  But when he is not angry he would tell me he loves me he believes that I already changed that I am a better person now and time will come that he could forget about my past and accept me for who I am.  I know he loves me I can feel it.  And I know he doesn?t have new love cause we are always together.  He just can?t accept my past and it is ruining our relationship.  When he remembers my past he acts as if he doesn?t love me as if he?s another person.  Last November 2008 he broke up with me.  According to him he?s not my boyfriend anymore but only the two of us knows it.  Other people know we are still in a relationship.  We?re always together still go out on a date say I love you kiss and hug each other in other words nothings changed by the way we treat each other in front of other people.  Just last week he told me again how dark my past was and he still can?t accept it.  He told me that he is happy with me anymore and he can?t see his future with me.  I begged and cried for him to give our relationship another chance I told him I love him so much and I cannot live my life without him.   He said it?s over and he even told my family that we?re over.  I still plead for him to give us another chance but he said he is happy with his decision now.  I can?t live my life without him.  My work my relationship with other people even with my family were affected that?s why I asked him begged for him to just allow me to love him to help him care for him eat lunch with him and go home with him.  He told me that it will just make it harder for me to move on and forget him.  I told him it?s okay I?m not ready I don?t want to move on because I love him so much and I want him back.  He told me not to hope anymore so that I will not get hurt.  I told him that I will wait and continue to love him.  As for the moment he still let me eat with him help him in his work and we even had sex last Sunday but he still told me our relationship is over and it will better for me if I will move on with my life and learn to stop loving him.What should I do?  I love him so much and I want him back. I don?t want to live without him! Please help me I know I?m stupid but what will I do I love him so much and I just accept that we?re over.]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[can I love more than 1 and how do I meet guy relationship?]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[because when I meet guys not sisterly brotherly they think just one way for love so I have 1 I dont want to add another one specially lady how u treat guys or how your relationship at all please identify thanks.]]></description>
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