I am in a friends with benifits relationship with this guy. I think I am falling for him. How do I know if he's falling for me?

Yes we are in a friend with benifits type relationship. We have been in that type of relationsip for almost 3 or 4 months now. It's not just all about sex with us though. We do other stuff to. Like we hang out and watch movies, listen to music, play video games. He doesn't want a girlfriend right now though and he has made that very clear. The problem is I think I am falling for him and falling hard. I can't tell him how I feel because I don't want to scare him away. Since he made it clear he doesn't want a girlfriend at this point and time. I try to see if there are any sings that he might be feeling the same way. I can't tell though. He tells me that he does care about me though. He told me one day that he is a very affectionate guy. He said I probably wouldn't know that though, because he is not very affectionate with me. He said the reason for that is because he doesn't want me to fall for him and get hurt. He has kissed me a few times but hardly ever. Well I was at this house the other day, and he did something that was so unlike him. It really shocked me. And I just feel like I really need to know what it means. OR what he ment by it. I was at his house sitting on his couch. He asked me if I thought it looked like he had any circles under his eyes. I said no. Then he got a little closer, and said are you sure. I said no again. Then he got closer to the point where we were face to face. Like his face was almost touching mine, and he asked me again are you really sure. So I said yes again. So after I said yes, he then leaned all way up to my lips and gave me a kiss. It blew my mind. It was so amazing. It tore me up inside. In a good way. It was just crazy because it was so unlike him to do something like that with me. The thing about the kiss is, it wasn't like an I want to have sex right now kiss. OR It wasn't like an I'm really turned on kiss. It was more like a romantic loving type of kiss. It wasn't a tounge down my throat making out type of kiss. I can't get that kiss out of my head. It made my knees weak. Who know's maybe I am reading to much in to this kiss... It's just that from his personality, and what I know from experience with him. He is a very stright foward type of guy. He is a tell you how it is type of guy and not hold back. So it just makes me think that I am probably reading to much in to this, because if he was falling for me to then wouldn't he be able to tell me? Since he is a stright foward type of guy. Ok I know this was really long and probably annoying... I am sorry for that but I figured the more you knew the better. The more you know abotu the situation I am in, the more you should be able to help me. Thanks.

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Drake : Everyone please just ignor this question. I wish to god that there was some way I could delete it... If there is a way I haven't found it yet... I just realized that it was stupid of me to post this question on some random web site thinking some stangers couldd help me with his situation. I guess I just got to thinking what if the guy I'm talking about ever finds this web site. He would be mad because I went in to detail about our kiss on some random site to a bunch of people I dont even know.
TheRealBrianQue: or he would love you. think.

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January 30, 2010

Posted by Nikcasis

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Drake if you are ok with being a friend with benefits then that is your choice. Too often we women get hooked on men after sexual encounters. Sadly men do not associate sexual encounters with commitment like we do. In the future you should feel him out, learn about him and his expectations or lack of expectations. Often when it starts as friends with benefits it continues with many issued such as lack of trust and that C word commitment. So Drake if your faced with type of situation consider what you want for yourself and out of the relationship.

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